"My
mother was the teacher and my father was the principal.
My report card was what Mom told Dad over the dinner table, and if the
principal felt like it he could ground me from doing PE, which might
be going skiing the following day."
Ah,
high school! My experience with those four years was a little different
from that of most people’s. There were no bells or stomping feet. There
weren’t even any sweaty, hard breathing classmates. There was no cafeteria
food or hall monitor or locker or a set time for when I must finish
my work. I was homeschooled. Very simple.
The
differences from "ordinary high school" (public education) were quite
natural to me. I was homeschooled since the first grade (I never went
to kindergarten). Therefore, when graduation from junior high turned
out to be a little celebration which lasted three minutes while I opened
my gift, it was very natural to me. I was a freshman and now I could
look forward to more challenges in the next school year, "hooray!"
As I plowed through each grade, the only person I had to compete with
was myself. My friends, like myself, were mostly homeschooled. Although
a large number of them were in my grade, none of them were at the same
point in their education. An example of this was my required reading.
For me, required reading only meant that I had to read something that
was at a high school or adult level. I was allowed to choose the material
as long as it fell into those categories. Thus, I may have read some
books that friends of mine never even touched. We were all plowing the
field of knowledge at different speeds, at our own comfortable paces.
My friend Josh might have been working at algebra while I struggled
through geometry. We were both in the same grade, but we were not at
the same place in our education. This is very common among home educators.
"So",
you may think, "homeschoolers do have friends. But do they ever get
enough socialization?"
I and hundreds of others will tell you, friend, that socialization never
lacked in our lives. We were also taught to respect people of all ages,
from our younger siblings and their little friends, to our elderly neighbors
whose parties and other gatherings we commonly attended. As far as socialization
with our peers was concerned, we had so many activities provided by
and for the home-schoolers, that we had to limit ourselves so as to
be able to fit school time into the schedule. Perhaps you are wondering,
"What do these people do for fun? How do you entertain kids of all ages
and get them to enjoy being together?" That was easy! We roller skated
and ice skated and skied and snowboarded and had parties and did the
same things that other people our ages enjoy doing. Almost all of these
activities were during the week while thousands of unfortunate kids
in public schools were staring through their blackboards. We also had
a high school banquet (similar to the proms held by public schools)
and a large graduation ceremony.
It is true that not all home-schoolers enjoy as many activities as I
did. There are even some who hate being homeschooled, who may feel lonely
and bored. But are all the kids in public school happy? Is there no
one who feels this same way as they see people all around whom they
hardly know? Do they go home to a dark, smoky house and bury their misery
in marijuana and alcohol?
Yes, my years in high school were different from those of the public
schools. My mother was the teacher and my father was the principal.
My report card was what Mom told Dad over the dinner table, and if the
principal felt like it, he could ground me from doing PE, which might
be going skiing the following day. We made just about everything
we did into an educational experience. Going to Yosemite was part of
geography, science, and PE while listening to Rush Limbaugh on the radio
or asking Dad about politics was considered government, economics, and
maybe even history. One of the advantages that I "suffered" from was
the one-on-one learning that I received from my mom. She only had five
students in her entire school, thus it was easy for her to help me along.
Compare that to a teacher with a class of twenty or even thirty students.
Mom also knew what my homework was and if I had done it before I went
hiking with my friends.
High school was never over (not even in the summer or on other vacations)
until I graduated with about twenty other students from the homeschool
group I was involved in. We walked down the aisle with grins on our
faces and cheers in the air and stepped into our futures.
Written
02-07-99
This story has been writen, translated, edited, corrected, and critiqued
by Isaac Smith. All rights reserved. Please send questions or comments
to lil_ol_me73@hotmail.com